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		<title>Comment on Strength and weakness by Scott</title>
		<link>http://seriouslyelisabeth.wordpress.com/2009/11/06/strength-and-weakness/#comment-385</link>
		<dc:creator>Scott</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 2009 21:32:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We all have different faces, and sometimes we get confused as to the &quot;real&quot; one, although I believe the real one is a combination of parts of all the ones we show.  That&#039;s what I like about being on the internet, being anonymous I can be my true self, at least as much as possible, with out feeling like I have to deliver on expectations of others.

And deep down we all want to be loved, even if the other person doesn&#039;t deserve OUR love.  But that&#039;s not reality, and sometimes someone just doesn&#039;t &#039;get&#039; you, not because you have bad qualities, just because yours don&#039;t mesh with the other person&#039;s qualities.  And all of these qualities are changing thru out our lives, so maybe they onced meshed and now they don&#039;t because one or both had a quality that evolved into something else.

That movie, Good Will Hunting has a scene that makes me tear up every time I see it (although I hide it from other people in the room).  It&#039;s where the therapist (Robin Williams) is telling Matt Damon&#039;s character over and over - it&#039;s not your fault, it&#039;s not your fault, it&#039;s not your fault.  And the reality is that it isn&#039;t your fault.  

Hope this made sense, it&#039;s been a long week.

Take care.
Shawn</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We all have different faces, and sometimes we get confused as to the &#8220;real&#8221; one, although I believe the real one is a combination of parts of all the ones we show.  That&#8217;s what I like about being on the internet, being anonymous I can be my true self, at least as much as possible, with out feeling like I have to deliver on expectations of others.</p>
<p>And deep down we all want to be loved, even if the other person doesn&#8217;t deserve OUR love.  But that&#8217;s not reality, and sometimes someone just doesn&#8217;t &#8216;get&#8217; you, not because you have bad qualities, just because yours don&#8217;t mesh with the other person&#8217;s qualities.  And all of these qualities are changing thru out our lives, so maybe they onced meshed and now they don&#8217;t because one or both had a quality that evolved into something else.</p>
<p>That movie, Good Will Hunting has a scene that makes me tear up every time I see it (although I hide it from other people in the room).  It&#8217;s where the therapist (Robin Williams) is telling Matt Damon&#8217;s character over and over &#8211; it&#8217;s not your fault, it&#8217;s not your fault, it&#8217;s not your fault.  And the reality is that it isn&#8217;t your fault.  </p>
<p>Hope this made sense, it&#8217;s been a long week.</p>
<p>Take care.<br />
Shawn</p>
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		<title>Comment on forgets sometimes and looks back&#8230; by Shawn</title>
		<link>http://seriouslyelisabeth.wordpress.com/2009/10/26/forgets-sometimes-and-looks-back/#comment-383</link>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Oct 2009 17:48:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>Comment on You&#8217;re a good man Charlie Brown by Catherinette</title>
		<link>http://seriouslyelisabeth.wordpress.com/2009/10/04/youre-a-good-man-charlie-brown/#comment-381</link>
		<dc:creator>Catherinette</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2009 18:21:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Very lovely post.

I&#039;m sorry for your loss.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Very lovely post.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m sorry for your loss.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Note to self by Shawn</title>
		<link>http://seriouslyelisabeth.wordpress.com/2009/10/04/note-to-self/#comment-379</link>
		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 14:48:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Love your imagination and your sense of humor, even when things are bringing you down it still comes out.  Sounds like Brains and Heart make a good team, they are good for each other.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Love your imagination and your sense of humor, even when things are bringing you down it still comes out.  Sounds like Brains and Heart make a good team, they are good for each other.</p>
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		<title>Comment on You&#8217;re a good man Charlie Brown by Shawn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Oct 2009 14:42:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>That is a very nice tribute, sounds like he was a wonderful guy.  I&#039;m sorry for the loss you and your community, and mostly his family, have suffered.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That is a very nice tribute, sounds like he was a wonderful guy.  I&#8217;m sorry for the loss you and your community, and mostly his family, have suffered.</p>
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		<title>Comment on Note to self by jenn</title>
		<link>http://seriouslyelisabeth.wordpress.com/2009/10/04/note-to-self/#comment-377</link>
		<dc:creator>jenn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Oct 2009 16:35:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m sorry you&#039;re hurting. This was beautifully written and good advice for all of us.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m sorry you&#8217;re hurting. This was beautifully written and good advice for all of us.</p>
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		<title>Comment on If you only knew by You know who I am</title>
		<link>http://seriouslyelisabeth.wordpress.com/2009/09/22/if-you-only-knew/#comment-376</link>
		<dc:creator>You know who I am</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 21:59:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Just do another password protected post.</description>
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		<title>Comment on If you only knew by Shawn</title>
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		<dc:creator>Shawn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 24 Sep 2009 18:04:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>You need a second blog, the &quot;super-duper stalker repellant blog&quot;.  Or something like that.  You can probably do better than I did with a title. ;-)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You need a second blog, the &#8220;super-duper stalker repellant blog&#8221;.  Or something like that.  You can probably do better than I did with a title. <img src='http://s.wordpress.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on First game, first win by n8</title>
		<link>http://seriouslyelisabeth.wordpress.com/2009/09/16/first-game-first-win/#comment-374</link>
		<dc:creator>n8</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Sep 2009 10:22:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>We love having you, thanks for playing!</description>
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		<title>Comment on Recognizing the hard truth by You know who I am</title>
		<link>http://seriouslyelisabeth.wordpress.com/2009/09/19/recognizing-the-hard-truth/#comment-373</link>
		<dc:creator>You know who I am</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2009 22:06:27 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>STOP. IT. NOW.   NOW!!!!!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>STOP. IT. NOW.   NOW!!!!!</p>
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